to success in your life

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you want to success in your life Exclamation

you want to live a nice life Exclamation

you want be a successful person Exclamation

SO here there are some rules to help you to have what you want

read them

And TRY to APPLY them

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One approach is called the three C's: Commitment, Control and Challenge.
Commitment
Make a positive commitment to yourself, to learning, work, family, friends, nature, and other worthwhile causes. Praise yourself and others. Dream of success.
Be enthusiastic.
Control
Keep your mind focused on important things. Set goals and priorities for what you think and do.
Visualize to practice your actions. Develop a strategy for dealing with problems. Learn to relax. Enjoy successes. Be honest with yourself.
Challenge
Be courageous. Change and improve each day. Do your best and don't look back. See learning and change as opportunities. Try new things. Consider several options. Meet new people. Ask lots of questions. Keep track of your mental and physical health. Be optimistic.
Studies show that people with these characteristics are winners in good times and survivors in hard times.

How to set goals and get results.
The best way to get results is to plan for the future, but live one day at a time.
Plan for the future.
Think about yourself; how do you define success? What makes you happy? What can you imagine yourself doing?
Does happiness mean money, security, helping others, prestige, family, improving the environment, solving problems, a career, and a degree?
Strengthen your will.
Whatever you decide, the key to success is to strengthen your will to succeed. This sounds circular – to succeed, strengthen your will; to strengthen your will, succeed - and it is. It is a positive feedback loop.
Create a long-term plan.
To get this positive feedback loop started, develop a long-term plan.
Think about where would you like to be 3-5 years from now? What would you like to be doing? Then plan back in time and outline the major steps that take you there.
Live one day at a time.
Once you have the big picture, concentrate on the present. Make a list of specific things you want to accomplish today, in school, work and your personal life. Make this list realistic so that you have lots of immediate successes. Build the positive feedback loop day-by-day. At the end of each day, reward yourself and strengthen your resolve for tomorrow.

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7 Suggestions for Building Positive Attitudes

• In every class, look for positive people to associate with.

• In every lecture, look for one more interesting idea.

• In every chapter, find one more concept important to you.

• With every friend, explain a new idea you've just learned.

• With every teacher, ask a question.

• With yourself, keep a list of your goals, positive thoughts and actions.

• Remember, you are what you think, you feel what you want.

Practicing Good Sportsmanship

So what does it take to demonstrate good sportsmanship in real-life situations? Here are some examples of things you can do:

• Learn as much as you can about your sport. Play by its rules. Show up for practice, work hard, and realize that on a team, everyone deserves a chance to play.

• Talk politely and act courteously toward everyone before, during, and after games and events. That includes your teammates, your opponents, your coaches and their coaches, the officials presiding over the game, and even spectators (who can sometimes be loud about their opinions).

• Stay cool. Even if others are losing their tempers, it doesn't mean you have to. Remind yourself that no matter how hard you've practiced and played, it is, after all, just a game.

• Avoid settling disputes with violence.

• Cheer your teammates on with positive statements - and avoid trash-talking the other team.

• Acknowledge and applaud good plays, even when someone on the other team makes them.

• When officials make a call, accept it gracefully even if it goes against you. Remember that referees may not be right every time - but they're people who are doing their best, just as you are.

• Whether you win or lose, congratulate your opponents on a game well played.

Good Character is more to be praised than outstanding talent. Most talents are , to some extent, a gift. Good Character, by contrast, is not given to us. We have to build it piece by piece – by thought, choice, courage and determination.

John Luther study

"SPORTSMAN"

"a person who can take loss or defeat without complaint, or victory without gloating, and who treats his opponents with fairness, generosity, courtesy"

Webster's Dictionary

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"The most important thing in the Olympic games is not to win but to take part just as the most important thing in life is not the triumph but the struggle. The essential thing is not to have conquered but to have fought well."

- Baron DeCoubertin
Founder of the modern Olympic Games

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salut,
i think ,first,every one who want to succed in his life, he ought to have his personality and his person remain the same scratch

(you deal with someone politely when he is in discussion with you for instance, and once he is not here you extract your mask and you don't stop blaming or reprimanding him or her)
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